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Stereotypes. Many exist, many of you probably believe them, and some of you have most likely been victims of them. You know, “All blondes are dumb”, “All women are bad drivers”, “All Asians are smart”, and “Americans are greedy, violent, overweight, patriotic to a fault, etc.”. The question is, why do these stereotypes exist? More importantly, why do they still persist despite the years of schooling we’ve accumulated that’s constantly reminded us that everyone is different and no one fits a stereotype perfectly?
Single stories, my friends. The answer is that. When we are told a story about a place, a person, or anything in general, we often only hear one kind of story: the most popular one. Whichever story has received the most attention is the one people tend to believe. Even if the story is wholly inaccurate, and there exists another story that is more correct, the inaccurate perception wins out. There is something about the popularity of a topic or an opinion that leads people to believe it even if it is wrong.
A bigger reason for the persistence of stereotypes is the fact that they have become entrenched into our culture, especially our media and cinema. For example, take any teen drama about high school you can think of (a good example I find is the movie Mean Girls). What are the characters like? I’d bet there’s a few of these “tropes” (stereotypes) in the story: the pretty popular girl, the geek, the jock, the outcast weird kid, the theater kid, the “bad boy/girl”, and the class golden child. These roles are so predictable that it’s like clockwork. The impact of this is that any kid watching a show, if they are young or manipulable enough, with these characters will start to believe that this is how the real world works. They start to assume people’s character traits based solely off of their perception of the characters; fantasy becomes reality. The popular girl is an airhead and unforgiving when it comes to choosing friends/partners, the geek only cares about their books and is weak physically, the jock is a jerk and not too bright; you know all of the assumptions because you might have made them before. They’re shown to us all the time, and they never go away because people continue to believe them. What do we do then?
Start by not taking someone at face value. Get to know them. Pick up on things that break the stereotypes. And seriously, stop making jokes about them, cause it only furthers the problem.
(Topic inspired by the “Danger of a Single Story” TED Talk by Chimamanda Adichie)